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7th House is like a mirror that reflects our deepest commitments and interactions with the world around us. It is in 7th House that we explore serious and lasting relationships, whether personal, romantic, commercial or political, playing a crucial role in defining who we are in relation to others. This astrological position shapes the way we relate, cooperate and commit throughout life, not just about our partnerships and commitments, but also about how we perceive these interactions and our willingness to deal with them, helping us to better understand patterns of cooperation, social interactions and the way we dedicate ourselves to the well-being of others. This house teaches us that we cannot live in isolation and that cooperation and interaction are essential for personal and collective growth, since it is through the partnerships we establish that we discover more about ourselves and the world around us. 7th House also challenges us to face direct confrontations and confront our own limits, as the declared enemies we encounter along our journey often reflect aspects of ourselves that we prefer not to recognize. However, these confrontations and tensions serve as opportunities for learning and growth, giving us more experience and wisdom to deal with life's challenges. Sun in the 7th House The Sun in 7th House gives the individual the gift of conciliation and the ability to be a good mediator or counselor. People with this configuration have the ability to analyze both sides of an issue impartially, seeking to promote reconciliation and understanding based on reasonableness. These individuals value cordial relationships and strive to maintain balance and harmony, even in chaotic situations, and rarely lose their temper, always avoiding getting involved in violent fights, as they have an aversion to lack of control and emotional outbursts. The search for individuality through others is also a striking characteristic of this positioning, making natives highly value partnerships, associations and relationships, finding their identity in interaction with others. In this sense, coexistence as a couple is especially valued, and these people try to adapt to it. The Sun in 7th House also involves the process of transference and countertransference, essential aspects for understanding relational dynamics. Thus, unconsciously, these individuals deal with the inferiority complexes of others, often canceling themselves out due to relationships, which can lead to emotional exhaustion. On the other hand, this ability to understand and deal with the emotions of others makes them excellent counselors and mediators, capable of offering deep insights and genuine empathy, not only helping to resolve conflicts, but also growing and developing personally, finding greater meaning. deep into life through these connections. Moon in the 7th House The Moon in 7th House encourages the individual to constantly seek the company of others, as loneliness becomes insipid without the presence of someone at their side. This need is not just about sharing moments, but also about sharing emotions, since the native seeks emotional support through relationships, discovering more about himself when sharing feelings, feeling fulfilled when surrounded by people, be it contacts , family, friends or romantic partners. However, caution is needed not to jump from one relationship to another quickly, in the incessant search for the ideal person, for the long-awaited "canned happiness". As it is natural for the native to want to receive more than to give, he can suffocate his partners or become highly influenced by them. Furthermore, unconsciously and automatically, people with this placement tend to deal with other people's fears, with a tendency to fill their emotional gaps and find security through partnerships, and it is crucial that they understand that relying excessively on others will never It's healthy. Because of this, natives need to work on their emotions from the inside out, without relying on crutches or illusions. This way, it is possible to get the best out of relationships without burdening the other, without expecting them to be the savior. Otherwise, they will continue to seek relationships impulsively, changing partners several times while looking for a new "mother" or "father". Mercury in the 7th House With Mercury in the 7th House, communication and thought turn to the relationships we establish in our lives through alliances and partnerships. This positioning intensifies relationships, making them more prone to bonds, with the flow of thought being directed mainly towards matters involving partnerships in general, and the person is likely to have an appreciation for alliances, feeling an increased need to discuss and resolve things. cooperatively. Furthermore, these natives tend to attract an intellectual or eloquent partner and can be skilled in dealing with the public, especially in direct contact situations, such as one-on-one conversations, which makes them prone to engaging in activities that involve dealing with other people, including advice and counselling. A point of attention in this positioning is the need to become more of a listener and less of a talker, as there is a tendency to talk more than listen. Due to greater mental ease in dealing with others, it may even seem that the person is able to read between the lines before they even have the opportunity to express themselves. It is worth highlighting that, unconsciously and automatically, the native tends to deal with other people's concerns, which causes them to build many mental interactions with all types of people. However, if there is no balance, the person may end up paying more attention to others than they should and need a lot of unnecessary social approval, making it extremely necessary to learn how to build a point of harmony in this context. Venus in the 7th House When Venus occupies 7th House in the astrological chart, its energies manifest themselves in an extremely favorable way, as this house deals directly with partnerships, associations and marriages, areas that are naturally governed by Venus. This astrological positioning tends to bring greater fluidity, balance and beauty to interpersonal relationships, especially in contexts of marriage and commercial companies, with interactions being much more harmonious and charming, which makes the individual with this configuration show themselves to others. more charismatic and persuasive. With Venus in the 7th House, natives generally have a strong aversion to injustice and strive to maintain harmony in their relationships, making them surrounded by an aura of justice and balance, combined with a deep desire to establish lasting and satisfying unions, especially intimate relationships. However, attention is needed, as this search for perfection in relationships can lead the native to face frustrations when expectations are not met, therefore, learning to accept the fact that perfection does not exist is crucial to avoid disappointment and self-esteem. annulment. This positioning also suggests an innate ability to deal with the desires and expectations of others, often unconsciously, with an inclination to resolve conflicts and bring peace where there is discord, which makes the person a born peacemaker, as they know how to deal well with diplomacy. Mars in the 7th House With Mars in 7th House there is a tendency towards stronger self-assertion in relation to others, often expressed through confrontations or questions in personal relationships, which can lead the native to face arguments in relationships, where both he and his partner can be equally assertive. This requires the native to have a more diplomatic and less direct stance, and it is important to be alert and prepared to deal with challenging situations to maintain harmony in relationships, whether personal or professional, learning to positively channel impulses with determination and peace. This positioning also suggests a more dynamic approach to partnerships and deep relationships, because, although they value independence, these natives recognize the importance of others, which makes their team dynamics more direct and inclined towards leadership. This occurs because there is a heroic tendency to defend the partner and relationships in general, which means that the person does not hesitate to protect and fight for what they consider fair and important within their relationships. This characteristic can strengthen emotional bonds, creating a sense of security and mutual support. Furthermore, these natives tend to look for an active partner who can share life in an intense and challenging way, enjoying forming unions with people who stimulate them intellectually and who are willing to face challenges together, which ends up reflecting their need for growth and evolution. through interaction with others. Jupiter in the 7th House With Jupiter in 7th House the person tends to become more sociable and capable of attracting benefits due to optimism in interpersonal relationships. This position paves the way for diverse opportunities, partnerships and people that bring growth, making relationships an inexhaustible source of development for your consciousness, where the experiences gained help the person to better understand the world, formulating solid values and their own philosophy of life. It is important, however, that these natives be careful with people of dubious values so as not to absorb unnecessary behavior, especially if Jupiter is poorly aspected. In this case, there is a risk of attracting stubborn, lazy or wasteful partners, which can harm personal and emotional growth, since Jupiter's influence can amplify both the qualities and defects of partners, making discernment a crucial skill for maintain healthy relationships. Despite these challenges, throughout life, these people have the ability to create truer and more conscious connections, and, as they learn to bring out the best in others, maintaining balance and humility, they are able to form partnerships that truly contribute to its development. In this case, Jupiter's typical optimism and generosity help promote an atmosphere of trust and cooperation, essential for successful relationships. Furthermore, this positioning can bring a sense of justice and ethics to relationships, encouraging the native to seek equity and honesty in all their interactions, thus favoring mutual growth and joint expansion, making partnerships a true journey of learning and evolution. . Saturn in the 7th House Saturn in 7th House represents a position that can bring with it certain difficulties and limitations in relationships, partnerships and contracts. These restrictions can manifest themselves in different ways, but when positive aspects are present, Saturn in this position can indicate a serious and lasting commitment both in love and in other areas of life. People with this placement tend to demonstrate a certain coldness in their relationships, being more demanding and critical of their partners, which can lead them to attract partners who do not meet their expectations or who are more irresponsible, reversing roles in the relationship. The presence of Saturn in the 7th House often implies facing resistance from others, experiencing delays and inflexibility in relationships, both personal and professional. This is because Saturn teaches natives the limits established by interpersonal dynamics, highlighting the importance of not demanding from others what one cannot offer. On the other hand, when we focus on personal relationships, there is a natural tendency not to be in a rush to get into a relationship or get married, as these natives prefer to make more careful choices and value more solid and deeper relationships. Despite this initial hesitation, when they find a partner they consider worthy, they are likely to establish lasting and meaningful relationships. It is worth highlighting that, despite the challenges, this positioning encourages people to deal consciously and responsibly with the failures and limitations of others, promoting a sense of responsibility and justice in their interactions, with emphasis on the professional sphere, where they tend to be compliant with agreements and commitments, demonstrating seriousness and competence. Uranus in the 7th House Uranus in 7th House of the astral chart suggests that the person tends to nurture friendship with their partner and value intellectual exchange and the quality of communication. Here, independence and a taste for self-management are striking characteristics, and respect for mutual freedom can favor and preserve the union of partners, since individual autonomy is as important as emotional connection. People with this positioning easily assimilate new concepts of justice and tend to adapt or modernize existing legal codes, in addition to being bold people who like to be challenged by their partners, always seeking constant evolution in their relationships. This is because, for them, interaction with others is seen as an opportunity for growth and transformation, and there is a great appreciation for partners who bring news and different perspectives. However, this astrological position can bring instability to relationships. The perception that "from one moment to the next, everything was fine, and now everything has changed" is common, which means that high expectations in relationships can result in fluctuating and inconstant marriages or societies, making it necessary to find a way to balance these expectations with the acceptance of imperfections present in others. Another noteworthy point is that Uranus in this position makes the native more interested in those who are different, unconventional or foreign, in addition to there being a tendency to repudiate melodramas and sentimentality, preferring a more rational and detached approach to relationships. Neptune in the 7th House Neptune in the 7th House brings an atmosphere in which illusion and fantasy can infiltrate a person's vision more easily, leading them to base themselves on unfounded assumptions or confuse expectations with reality, especially in interpersonal relationships, seeing the other through of a veil before their eyes, tending to excessive idealization of their partner. This is mainly because these natives tend to overly indulge in all types of relationships, demanding the same behavior from their partner, which makes them susceptible to feeling uncomfortable if people do not correspond to what was idealized. Therefore, it is essential that they understand that others are not perfect and learn to deal with the limitations of each human being. Furthermore, before committing to a serious relationship, it is prudent for these natives to check that their partner is not involved in something illicit, and is in fact a decent person, since many can fit into what is idealized just to get their own advantage. It is worth highlighting that both illusions and disappointments, which are so pulsating in this positioning, can be used as tools for growth, self-knowledge and life experience, serving as a learning experience about the importance of not idealizing others. Understanding this will help the native to gain the discernment and clarity necessary to see what is really in front of them and not just in their mind, learning to carefully analyze each situation in a practical and realistic way before taking any type of action. Pluto in the 7th House Pluto in 7th House brings an intense dynamic to relationships, which become a source of profound transformation in various aspects of life. Here, trust and loyalty are fundamental values, whether in marriages, associations or partnerships, the person tends to become more magnetic and dynamic to others, although they can also demonstrate an impulsive temperament. The problem here lies in the amplified and irrational fear that these natives have about the end of relationships, which can lead them to get involved in power struggles and attract domineering partners. This dynamic may reflect a tendency towards emotional dependence in relationships, where this need for control and the difficulty in dealing with loss create a vicious cycle of possessiveness and jealousy, making relationships challenging. Furthermore, those with this placement often deal unconsciously and automatically with the traumas of others, absorbing and reacting intensely to their partner's emotions. Therefore, it is essential that they learn to establish healthy limits so as not to overwhelm themselves emotionally, freeing themselves from emotional dependence on others and developing awareness of their own inner power. Additionally, these individuals must work to recognize and transform their own shadows and fears, using Pluto's energy for regeneration and growth. Learning to trust your own strength and letting go of what no longer serves you is fundamental to evolving in your relationships. Enjoy your reading and see you in the next astrology article, 8th House and the Planets